10 Signs He Will Come Back After No Contact

Going no contact with someone you love is hard. Really hard.

You sit with the silence. You overthink everything. You check your phone more than you want to admit.

And all you really want to know is… will he come back?

The truth is, there’s no magic answer. But sometimes, the signs are there. If you know what to look for.

Let’s talk about some of those signs together. Real ones. Not fairytales. Just what real people go through when they’re hoping for a second chance.

1. He breaks the silence first

When he’s the one who texts you first, that’s not a small thing.

It means he’s thinking about you. Wondering how you are. Maybe even missing you.

Sometimes it starts with a simple “Hey, how have you been?”

Other times it’s a random meme he sends on Instagram. Or maybe he reacts to your story.

Either way, he’s trying to crack open that door again. That door you firmly closed.

And let’s be honest. Most guys don’t reach out unless they want something. Even if it’s just to test the waters.

But if it feels genuine and consistent, he may be trying to come back slowly.

2. He regrets the breakup

Some guys act cool after a breakup. Like it doesn’t bother them.

But when the silence gets loud, the truth creeps in.

If he starts opening up about regrets, take note. It means he’s reflecting.

Maybe he says the breakup had to happen. But now, he realizes what you both had was worth fighting for.

He may say things like:

• “I didn’t know how much you meant to me until you were gone.”
• “I should’ve handled things better.”
• “I miss what we had.”

That’s not small talk. That’s heart talk.

No contact gives both people time to see things clearly. If he’s coming back with this level of honesty, it could mean he wants a new chapter with you.

3. You’ve had an on-and-off thing

Not ideal. But it’s real life.

Some people just have that push and pull kind of love. You break up. Get back. Break up again.

It’s frustrating. But it also means there’s a strong emotional connection underneath it all.

If this has been your story with him, it could mean he’s not done yet.

It may not be the healthiest dynamic, but it shows there’s still something there. A cord that hasn’t been cut.

If he’s come back before, chances are… he might come back again.

But don’t ignore the reasons you broke up. If you do get another shot, talk about those things. Set real boundaries.

Make it count this time.

4. He’s still connected to your circle

You’d think a breakup means cutting ties with friends too. But some guys don’t do that.

If he still hangs out with your mutual friends. If he’s still in touch with your cousin. Or still randomly liking your best friend’s dog pictures on Facebook…

That means he’s keeping one foot in your world.

Maybe he’s hoping someone tells you he asked about you.

Maybe he’s waiting for a birthday party or get-together to “accidentally” bump into you.

He might even be trying to look good in front of your friends, so they’ll put in a good word.

It’s not always about manipulation. Sometimes, it’s just him not wanting to let go of the part of his life that had you in it.

5. He notices your glow-up

Post-breakup glow-ups are real. Emotionally. Mentally. Physically.

Maybe you started going to the gym. Maybe you started a new job. Maybe your energy just shifted and it’s showing.

He sees it. Trust me.

Even if he doesn’t say anything right away, guys pay attention.

And when he does say something like, “You look amazing lately” or “I’m proud of you”… that’s his way of saying, “Wow, look at you.”

It’s admiration. It’s interest. And it’s usually a bit of longing.

He may not know how to say he misses you. But complimenting your growth? That’s a start.

6. He hasn’t moved on

People say you can tell a lot by what someone does after the breakup.

If he’s dated other women but nothing serious came out of it, that might mean he’s not emotionally over you.

Even more so if he hasn’t dated at all.

Sometimes, it’s not about being a player. It’s about not being ready to connect with someone else.

Because he’s still stuck on you.

That pause after a breakup? It says more than a rebound ever could.

It shows his heart hasn’t found someone new.

Maybe because he’s still hoping to circle back to you.

7. He gets nostalgic

Ever had an ex randomly text, “Remember that beach trip?”

Or “I just saw your favorite snack and thought of you.”

Those are not just memories. They’re little windows into his heart.

He’s reliving the good times. And he’s hoping you are too.

Nostalgia is powerful. It makes people miss the past. Sometimes enough to want it back.

So when he brings up old memories, it’s his way of saying… those moments meant something to him.

And maybe, just maybe, he wants new memories with you.

8. He’s curious about your life now

You know he’s watching. Maybe not in a creepy way. But you know.

He watches your stories. Likes your posts. Maybe even replies sometimes.

Then he starts asking questions.

“How’s work been?”

“Did you ever end up going on that trip you mentioned?”

“What book were you reading the other day?”

These aren’t random. They’re signs of interest.

He’s not just trying to fill silence. He wants to know you again.

He’s peeking into your life from the outside and maybe realizing… he wants back in.

9. Your energy together still feels natural

If you’ve had a few casual run-ins or friendly convos after no contact…

And it doesn’t feel awkward or forced…

That means something.

Not all exes can talk casually without tension.

If there’s laughter. Ease. Even a little flirting…

It’s because the connection is still there.

That’s not fake. That’s emotional memory. Familiarity. Comfort.

It means the door to reconciliation isn’t fully closed. Not yet.

10. He straight-up tells you

Some guys play it cool. Others don’t.

If he comes out and says he wants to fix things, take it seriously.

He might say:

“I want to talk about us.”
“I made a mistake.”
“Can we try again?”

These are clear signs. No guessing required.

When he’s ready to step up and be vulnerable like that, it’s usually because he’s thought long and hard about it.

Now, this doesn’t mean you have to take him back.

It just means you’ve got your answer.

He wants another chance.

Final Thoughts

No contact is hard. It’s confusing. It leaves space for hope and heartbreak all at once.

But in that silence, clarity grows.

If he’s showing these signs, there’s a chance he’s coming back. Not just physically. Emotionally too.

But the real question is…

Do you want him back?

If your heart says yes, and if the issues that broke you up can truly be fixed, then maybe it’s worth it.

But if he’s just repeating old patterns, you have to ask yourself if the love is still worth the pain.

You deserve love that’s sure of you. That chooses you. Every single day.

So, if he’s coming back, make sure he’s coming back better.

And if he doesn’t come back?

Know this: you’re still enough. You’re still lovable. And something beautiful is still ahead of you.

Every ending is also a beginning.

You’ve got this.