10 Signs He Has No Feelings For You

Before we dive deep, let me just say this. There are many sides to the story when it comes to figuring out if a guy has no feelings for you.

Sometimes, you just feel it in your gut. That something’s off. You can’t explain it clearly, but you know something’s changed.

But here’s the tricky part.

It might not always mean he doesn’t have feelings for you. Sometimes he’s confused. Other times, he’s hurting from something he hasn’t even told you about.

Maybe he’s dealing with old baggage. Maybe you both just had a big fight. Maybe he’s pulling away for reasons that have nothing to do with love.

Still, there are moments when the signs are too loud to ignore.

And that’s what we’re going to talk about today.

Let’s look at the 10 signs he has no feelings for you.

1. You’re always the one reaching out

You notice you’re the one always calling. Texting. Checking in.

He barely texts first. Your messages get one-word replies. Dry as sand.

He sees your calls and ignores them. Doesn’t call back either.

You wait. Hope. Nothing.

It feels like you’re forcing a connection.

If a guy truly cares, he won’t make you beg for his attention. He’ll reach out. Even if it’s just to say, “Hey, I was thinking of you.”

When he doesn’t, that’s a loud silence. One that screams, “I’m not into this.”

2. He leaves you when you need him the most

You’re down. Really down.

You need someone to talk to. Someone to hold your hand and say, “I got you.”

But he’s not there.

Worse, he knows what you’re going through. And still chooses not to show up.

He gives excuses. Says he’s busy. Or simply vanishes until you magically feel better.

A man who cares doesn’t run when you’re at your lowest.

Even if he doesn’t know what to say, he’ll still try to be there. Sit with you. Listen.

When he leaves you hanging in your darkest moments, that tells you everything you need to know.

3. You feel like just an option

He treats you like you’re optional.

You never feel like a priority.

He cancels plans last minute. He forgets important things you told him. He shows up only when it’s convenient for him.

Everything is about him. His life. His schedule.

When you bring it up, he flips it and says you’re overreacting.

You know you deserve better, but you stay. Hoping he’ll change.

Let’s be real.

Someone who has feelings for you won’t treat you like a background character in his life.

If you constantly feel like you’re just filling in the gaps of his loneliness, that man is not emotionally invested.

4. He gives more attention to his phone than to you

You’re together, but it doesn’t feel like it.

He’s glued to his phone.

Scrolling. Typing. Laughing at memes.

You try to talk, but he’s not listening. Not really. He says “yeah” or “uh-huh” without even looking up.

You’re physically close, but emotionally miles apart.

And when you say something about it, he calls you needy.

If a man has real feelings for you, you won’t need to fight for his attention.

He’ll put the phone down. He’ll make you feel seen.

But if the phone always wins, it’s because you don’t matter enough.

Harsh? Maybe. But true.

5. He doesn’t care about you

Sounds blunt, I know.

But sometimes, it’s just that simple.

You talk about something important to you, and he tunes out.

You express your feelings, and he brushes them off.

You cry in front of him, and he acts like it’s not a big deal.

He makes you feel dramatic for expecting basic care and attention.

Love shows. It shows in concern, in presence, in kindness.

If you constantly feel unseen, unheard, and uncared for, stop making excuses for him.

He doesn’t care. And you shouldn’t have to beg for that.

6. He no longer spends time with you

He always has something else to do.

Work. Friends. Gym. Random errands.

You barely see each other. And even when you do, it feels rushed.

Gone are the long conversations. The silly hangouts. The effort.

He doesn’t even try anymore.

Time is love. Let that sink in.

When someone has feelings for you, they want to be around you. They miss you. They make time.

If he’s always unavailable, you’re just not that important to him anymore.

Hard pill to swallow. But the sooner, the better.

7. Your instincts keep warning you

Your gut keeps whispering, “This isn’t right.”

You feel uneasy. Anxious. Insecure.

But you keep telling yourself it’s just paranoia.

Except, it isn’t.

Your instincts have been picking up on the little signs. The coldness. The emotional distance. The shift in energy.

But your heart doesn’t want to believe it.

You want to hold on. So you ignore your inner voice.

But that voice is there for a reason.

Trust it.

It rarely lies.

8. He talks about other women like you don’t exist

He openly compliments other women in your presence.

He tells you about how gorgeous someone else is. How funny or smart they are.

Sometimes he even compares you to them.

You sit there. Speechless.

It’s like he forgets you’re supposed to be the one he’s into.

A man with feelings for you will never make you feel less than.

He won’t bring up other women in a way that makes you question your worth.

So when he does it without a second thought, that’s your answer right there.

9. He flirts with other women in front of you

This one hurts the most.

You watch him giving attention to other women. Smiling. Complimenting. Flirting.

And he doesn’t even hide it.

You confront him, and he says you’re too sensitive. That he’s just being friendly.

No. He knows what he’s doing.

He wants you to see it. To feel jealous. To feel insecure.

A man who truly cares will never put you in that position.

He won’t seek attention from others while making you feel invisible.

Don’t let anyone play with your emotions like that.

10. He tells you with his actions that he’s done

Sometimes, it’s not about what he says.

It’s what he does. Or doesn’t do.

He stops showing up. Stops trying. Stops caring.

You feel it in the way he looks at you. Talks to you. Or avoids you.

No more sweet words. No more affection.

He’s still around, but the love isn’t.

That’s the loudest sign of all.

You can wait for him to say it out loud. Or you can accept that his actions already have.

What Can You Do If He Has No Feelings For You?

First off, breathe.

This isn’t the end of the world.

I know it hurts. I know you liked him. Maybe you even loved him.

But one man’s lack of feelings doesn’t define you.

You are still valuable. Deserving. Worthy of love.

Don’t chase someone who’s not choosing you.

You deserve someone who looks at you like you’re magic. Who listens. Who tries. Who shows up.

Let this one go. Slowly, surely.

Cry if you need to. Vent. Heal.

And then get up, dust yourself off, and keep moving forward.

Like Nigerian singer Adekunle Gold said, “There’s a man for every woman and a woman for every man.”

Yours is out there.

And he won’t make you question his feelings.

He’ll make them so clear, you’ll never have to ask.