Let me start by asking you something serious. Why would anyone sabotage their own marriage? Sounds ridiculous, right? Like, who signs up for love and companionship just to tear it all apart? But here’s the hard truth… Many people do this. And most times, they don’t even know they’re doing it. Self-sabotage is sneaky like…
Let’s be real for a second. Marriage changes. That head-over-heels, can’t-stop-smiling phase in the beginning? Yeah, it slowly makes room for routines, responsibilities, and real-life stuff. But that doesn’t mean the love is gone. It just looks different now. Not worse. Just… different. In the early days, you were getting butterflies just because he texted….
They say love is blind. But let me tell you this. Marriage shouldn’t be. You can’t go into something that serious with your eyes closed. Choosing who to marry is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make in your life. It’s not like picking a vacation spot or trying a new restaurant. This is…
Have you ever sat in your room, staring at your phone, wondering why it always ends the same way? Like seriously. You try your best. You show up. You care deeply. You want it to work. But somehow, it still crashes and burns. You find yourself asking, “Why am I always the one trying harder?…
“Why does my husband always make me feel worthless?” If you’ve ever caught yourself asking that in the quiet of the night or after one of those arguments that left you numb inside, you are not alone. Marriage is supposed to feel safe. Like a warm hug on a cold day. Like home. But what…
Let me guess. You’ve been feeling like you talk, but it’s like your words just evaporate into thin air. Your wife is there. Physically present. But mentally and emotionally? She’s on another planet. You say something important, and she’s scrolling through her phone. You try to explain how you feel, and she just nods or…
Do you ever get this weird gut feeling that something’s not right with your husband lately? Like, he’s there… but also kinda not? You find yourself overthinking every little change in his behavior. You start wondering if maybe… just maybe… he has a thing for someone else. Let’s be real. That thought can feel like…
When I was single, I used to lie awake sometimes, lowkey panicking about marriage. Like, real talk? I was scared. Not because I didn’t want to be married. Oh no. I wanted marriage. I still do. I’m a big romantic, and I always dreamed about building a beautiful life with someone. I wanted the family,…
Bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. I heard that quote years ago, and whew… it hit. Hard. It stayed with me because it’s so real. It’s giving “self-sabotage in disguise.” There’s a reason my favorite book (yes, the Bible) tells us not to let bitterness take root. It knows…
Women have been asking this question since forever… “What makes a man want to marry you?” Is there some secret formula? Some magic combination of traits? A checklist? Honestly? Not really. Because what works for one man might do absolutely nothing for another. People are different. Men are different. Needs are different. One man’s dream…