I once wrote about 20 things smart women do NOT do in a relationship, and let me tell you, it practically went viral on my blog. Apparently, a lot of us are out here trying to avoid getting played, manipulated, or settling for less. I get it. But then it hit me. It’s not enough…
Okay okay… “never” is a bold word. I get it. But stay with me. Because I’ve seen couples who, despite all the chaos around them, somehow make marriage look… not just bearable, but beautiful. Like, “Dang, you two still like each other?” kind of beautiful. They argue, they struggle, they have messy days. But divorce?…
Let’s be honest. Picking a gift for a female friend when you’re a married man is a bit like trying to walk across a room full of LEGO with no shoes. You might make it across without stepping on anything painful, but is it worth the risk? Now, don’t get me wrong. Friendship is a…
It is not a coincidence that some couples have a great sex life while others are struggling in the bedroom. From the outside, it might look like those couples just got lucky or found some magical sexual compatibility. Like maybe they hit the jackpot and the rest of us are left fumbling with mismatched puzzle…
Marriage can be called many things, but effortless is not one of them. Scratch that. Staying happily married can be called many things, but effortless is not one of them. When I was in uni, one of my professors once said, “Marriage is like a walk in the park… except the park is Jurassic Park.”…
Let’s be real for a second: life can be completely unfair sometimes. You could be out here being the sweetest, most loyal, God-fearing woman on Earth, and yet still find yourself with a man who treats you like background noise. Yep. It sucks. But here’s the tea that nobody wants to say out loud: in…
Let me just say this before we dive in: if you’re here expecting some magic formula or a five-second trick to hypnotize your man into worshipping the ground you walk on, I hate to break it to you sis, but that’s not what this is. Hehehe. I’m not going to sell you fantasies. But if…
Let’s be honest, being a wife is not for the faint of heart. Some days, it feels like you’re crushing it. Other days, you’re crying in the bathroom with a tub of ice cream and wondering if your marriage is secretly a sitcom you didn’t audition for. Hehehe. But here’s the truth: being a better…
Nobody wants to think of themselves as toxic. We’d rather believe we’re just misunderstood, or maybe we’re reacting to the nonsense we’ve had to endure. And listen, I’m not here to deny your reality. Maybe you have been through some stuff. Maybe your husband has been selfish or distant or checked out emotionally. But here’s…