When I was single, I used to lie awake sometimes, lowkey panicking about marriage. Like, real talk? I was scared. Not because I didn’t want to be married. Oh no. I wanted marriage. I still do. I’m a big romantic, and I always dreamed about building a beautiful life with someone. I wanted the family,…
Bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. I heard that quote years ago, and whew… it hit. Hard. It stayed with me because it’s so real. It’s giving “self-sabotage in disguise.” There’s a reason my favorite book (yes, the Bible) tells us not to let bitterness take root. It knows…
Women have been asking this question since forever… “What makes a man want to marry you?” Is there some secret formula? Some magic combination of traits? A checklist? Honestly? Not really. Because what works for one man might do absolutely nothing for another. People are different. Men are different. Needs are different. One man’s dream…
Okay, let’s be real for a second. A kiss isn’t just a kiss. Sometimes it’s just a sweet little hello, other times it’s fireworks and butterflies and that deep, soul-tingling connection. But here’s the juicy question… What actually makes a man want to kiss a woman? Like, what triggers that “I want to lean in…
So, the other day, I was having a chill convo with a friend of mine. We were gisting, sipping drinks, and somehow, the topic slid into relationships. I asked him, “Bro, do you know what actually makes a woman lose respect for a man?” He paused for a second, gave me that look, and then…
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “Why would a man choose me out of all the women he could be with?” Like, for real. Out of the millions of women walking this earth, what is it that makes one woman stand out in a man’s heart? What makes him see her as the one? Is…
Most guys think that being a “god in bed” is about six-packs, some insane moves they saw in a movie, maybe a se *xy playlist, and the stamina of a marathon runner. Okay, those things are cool. I mean, I won’t complain if my man looks like a snack. But hear me out… All of…
I once wrote about 20 things smart women do NOT do in a relationship, and let me tell you, it practically went viral on my blog. Apparently, a lot of us are out here trying to avoid getting played, manipulated, or settling for less. I get it. But then it hit me. It’s not enough…
There are way too many people out here calling themselves “se *x gods.” And let me tell you, most of them are bluffing hard. Hehehe. It’s not that they’re terrible or anything (okay, some are), but the truth is: being great at physical intimacy isn’t just about how you feel. It’s not about your moves,…
Okay okay… “never” is a bold word. I get it. But stay with me. Because I’ve seen couples who, despite all the chaos around them, somehow make marriage look… not just bearable, but beautiful. Like, “Dang, you two still like each other?” kind of beautiful. They argue, they struggle, they have messy days. But divorce?…